Wednesday, May 27, 2015


Relationships are super exhausting.


Am I trying too hard?


It has never been this hard before. I feel like I'm going out of my mind. Sebab seriously, if its meant to be....why is it so damn difficult? Yang never meant to be dulu pun not as hard as this.


Okayla. Back to work.

Tuesday, March 31, 2015

10 minute rant

Off late, it felt like I am experiencing a premature summer hours minus the sun and the sand.

The days seems long (and longer) and nights cut short. My standard hours starts at about 8ish am to as late as 3am to 4am the next day - leaving only about 5 hours of downtime. I am not kidding when I sing song and kata I am swamped because I am seriously tired. 

And I have so much on my plate. Work is crazier than ever. Deadlines kept being pushed forward as if tomorrow's doomsday. Because I spent so much time at work my studies had been lagging. Tak buat sepatah haram pun reading (apalagi writing) during this 3 months study break. 

My motivation is super low.

Not that I don't want to excel - I felt a bit stuck there. Macam ada a huge road block in front of me and its taking a lot of energy to get through this.

Somehow yoga cushions the blow.

Been practicing a bit this past 2 weekends and had an amazing time during anna sugarman's workshop last saturday. For a moment, I felt a gush of energy, a form of lightness. In fact, I felt a lot better.

This lil yogi has so much peace and love her practice is exactly what I needed. Manage to get a couple of days of good night sleep over the weekend before work starts taking over my nights again yesterday.

So much for Mondays la kan. 


I have high hopes that this is not permanent though. This feeling of being stressed out, overworked, tired. I believe this is just a season - it too shall pass. Over the past couple of years I have been looking at my work demands and busy schedule positively - that its temporary and part of my future investment. But off late people close to me had been questioning my work commitments - to a point that its troubling me. Its not true to say I don't care. I somewhat care. And its bugging me.

It came to a point that it became so difficult I asked myself "apa sebenarnya end game ni? kenapa susah sangat?".

Trust me, no matter how solid and strong I look at the outside, aku ni sebenarnya hati tisu in inside. Lately banyak hari kot I try to hold back tears inside me and just take everything one day at a time.


So now....time for that one deep breathe and back to work.

Thursday, March 26, 2015

Terkenangkan rumahku yang bagai tongkang pecah

I had time off earlier today to attend to a few personal matters - as I woke up this morning I realise that my house is a freaking mess! Sigh. My normal routine for the past couple of weeks was work work work - came home just to sleep - barely even made my bed then go back to work work work and repeat. Thank God ada time sikit nak cuci kain. But then I wish I can spare some time rearranging my stuff ; at least my luggage from my previous london/paris trip that is still untouched in my living room.

Messy sungguh rasa.

Tapi tak boleh buat apa. Woke up, showered, left the building. Yet again.

Maybe this coming weekend.


Monday, March 23, 2015

Swamped...but definitely looking forward...

Wow it has been ages!

3 words - I am swamped. Work is cray cray - missed a lot on life because work is kinda demanding right now but I know this stormy days shall pass. 

It has been a stressful 3 weeks, and its not helping that my home-front is not stable too. I suppose its normal for couples to fight but recent turn of events has really gotten me agitated.I don't know if I have enough strength to brave this through - I just hope that at the end I can still hold on to myself.

To have courage. And be kind.

So last weekend I broke my bank and decided that just this one time I should give myself a break - so I invested in a 3 day detox cleanse and bought my yoga pass for the next 3 months. I need some zen, a center. I think some time in the past 6 months I have somewhat lost myself, and its hurting me.

When in pain, yoga is good.

Especially when one of your yoga healers is a yoga rockstar.

Just gotta love my yoga home - they just bring amazing people.

Can't wait.


Tuesday, March 10, 2015


I am human.

From time to time, I forget that the one person who can truly love me is myself. Hence, I end up loving someone else more than my own.

At some point this is not a bad thing. In fact, its natural. But then to some extreme, I lose myself.

Because when I love someone too much I open up the part of me that's fragile. A friend once told me that when I love someone I am beyond myself - I give and love with my all. That's dangerous. Because that's the part of me that can be broken. That can be hurt.

And others, just like me at the time when I still love myself....can be selfish.

So when the person I love starts being selfish, knowingly or not....they hurt me.

Time and time again I remind myself that such things happens. That's it part and parcel of life. But then again, there is no excuse to not take care of myself.

No excuse for not drinking more H20 than I am now.

Or to skip gym time.

To miss salon and facial appointments.

Raincheck on coffee with the girls.

I should have known that I am losing myself when I don't recognise myself in the mirror anymore.

How did I lose myself this time?


Recently I hit the bottom of the wheel barrel and as I look at the mirror, I see a complete stranger. One that's washed up, tired, exhausted - and all of a sudden I aged by 10 years in a flash. 

God, how did I get here?

Perhaps I relied too much on the love of others I forget I am best when I love myself too. Now when I felt lost it seems pretty clear that I should have given me more care in the first place.

So #notetoself - here's to trying to fall in love with me again - and hopefully along the way pick up the pieces to make it where I want to be,

Oh that addiction to apple products.....

Last weekend was pretty horrid. Dah la penat because I worked late all week, weekend kena kerja tambah lagi pulak dengan an unexpected circumstance yang seriously makes me cringe - I can't believe how my week can get any worse.


The highlight of my weekend is the death of my "barely-alive" iphone 4 which serves as my back up for the diving Iphone5.  Patah kaki sekejap. I can't really live without my iphone. The last 4 months on the Iphone4 pun I am barely surviving - such a pitiful state of being for me sebab Iphone tu habis berplaster sana sini after it hit the floor super hard when I touched down at CDG Paris.

In some way Iphone tu is like me ....broken. Worn. Beyond pre-loved.

Sape la yang nak sayang aku ni weyh?


And so with tears I buried it away - and jumpstart my backup BB curve I kept for travelling. Its been merely two days on BB and now I am itching to get the new Iphone 6.


Dah la I'm saving money for the wedding. For once I felt like just going on impulse and get the new phone coz seriously, my life macam down gila with limited access to instagram, FB and twitter - tambahan lagi no access at all to my itunes playlist. Macam dah tak bermakna.

Still contemplating. Not sure if its the right thing to just spend the savings.