Monday, April 28, 2008

Dasar Bimbo....

Not that I have anything against bimbo's...they are naive creatures of God that can make sense of what she's doing, tapi seriously....why the heck does God give you brains if you don't ever use them???

Guna la sikit...bukannya tuhan marah pon!!!

But this entry is not really targeted to the bimbo's (*kesiannya, jadi topik utama pulak*)...

It's to the sluts yang tak gheti bahasa jauhkan diri dari lelaki orang, then saja berlagak bimbo (kononnya naive la - merosakkan imej bimbo2 sedunia je) dengan menggunakan ayat2 seperti....

It's nothing...we are just friends
*At the same time cuba cover boyfriend you yang dah sah-sah curang....wujud ke insan sebegini??? All women out there....this kind seriously exist ok!!! And I personally encountered two with my ex....jenis yang "tak-pe- aku-tau-kita-sama-suka2-so-nanti-kalau-gf-u-tanya-i-kata-la-takde-apa2"....apa lelaki ni hebat sangat ke, or you are just plain cheap???*

I know you...we are friends and I will never do that to you
*Back-stabber.....sangat sangat sangat BITCH with a capital B. This kind knows your family, your friend, everyone in your life...tapi still dengan sokahatinya merampas jejaka idaman hati, maybe due to envy because they think if other's can have an "oh-so-perfect-life-with-that-guy", why not share?*

We are just having fun, is that wrong???
*ermm...ni terbuka pada interpretasi...tapi kalau dia dah jatuh ke kategori "I know you...we are friends and I will never do that to you" bukan ke tak patut tu??? Especially bila u know that he is somebody's ooyfriend (okeh, boleh bagi excuse lagi...anyway, diorang boleh bagi alasan belum kawin kan???so tak confirm...but still no excuse), or fiance (ni memang tak patut...belum kawin nak merabakkan kebahagian orang) or husband (okay...ni dah definitely cross the line....SANGAT TAK PATUT OKEH!!!Desperado ke???)*

Tapi ade jugak mereka2 yang guna ayat bernas dan lebih berpendirian (atau cara2 keji, am not discussing it here, nanti panjang berjela2 pulak)....this one you have to admit, deserve an applaud...sebab dia berani sikit...seperti....

So what if we are dating???Memang pun...tanya la boyfriend you.
Dah u tak pandai jaga boyfriend you, dia datang la kat I
I memang nak bagitau u, tapi boyfriend you yang tak kasi....
Dan banyak lagi yang sealiran dengannya...

These people (okeh, im refraining myself from using more hazardous words) at least give you closure.

*Lepas tu boleh mula serang boyfriend masing2. In my case with my ex, I left him in the middle of KL-Seremban highway...sangat CLASSIC!*

What's the point again???

Oh ok....aku tak soka pompuan macam ni...dan lelaki yang terlibat memang hampeh!

Tapi haruskah kita perempuan terus dijadikan mangsa (oleh tabiat pompuan2 macam ini)???

Well, we can decide not to be the victim. We can decide to move on or deal with it in whatever way possible.

Ingat tak kat Hitz.FM Che'Nelle ada kata "men should add on to the happiness of our lives" and "we should love ourselves the way we want others to love us" ? That somewhat has a point sebenarnya.

Sometimes when we love someone else too much we tend to be selfless, and instead of loving ourselves, we hurt ourselves more by simply puitting up dengan perkara2 macam ni (men cheating, other women *seperti diatas* can't just quit on the cheating man). They can give all sort of reason to fuck us up tapi at the end of the day it goes on to this one question....

Are we going to put up with it???

Dah cross the line belum???How are we going to face it???

Jangan buntu...

Maybe its time to take a step back, re-assess the relationship. Maybe all this bitches has a point. Maybe the relationship won't work anymore. Or maybe its just a bump in life that's once taken care off will make the relationship stronger. Who know's??

One thing for sure...take your time to think, don't make the decision that you will regret....and if steam is still flowing, take a time off and get back to the problem when you can think rationally...

*yeah...kill the bimbo's if you have too*

But don't be afraid to make decisions that is out of norm. Sometimes the best thing to do is not the easiest thing to do. Yang penting mesti cinta diri sendiri...

Dan biarlah perempuan2 murahan tu dapat whatever they are asking for. Anyway, what goes around comes around.

1 comment:

along said...

thanks for the eye opener entry.





sangat.
berterima kasih.


i guess, i just have to cross d line.
no.
i know i need to cross d line.


after all, what goes around comes around kan?
hmm.

thanks!!