'More talking?' Sadie looks appalled. 'How are you going to forget him if you keep on talking about him? Darling, when things go wrong in life, this is what you do'. She adopts a knowledgeable tone. 'You lift your chin, put on a ravishing smile, mix yourself a little cocktail....and out you go'.
- Twenties Girl, Sophie Kinsella.Page 97.
Its easier said than done (yes, I admit it) to just ignore whatever pain that hurts you and move on. But then sooner or later there's no running away from reality that he would never come back.
So suck it up and move on.
Sadie has a valid point. Her approach might sound a bit non-challant but then why should we girls sit back, reminisce and mop around? Why must he get the satisfaction of leaving and thinking he has the upper hand?
We should gather the courage and find our own way.
I am reflecting. I am gaining strength. And I believe that I will get through this.
To all the girls out there who is in my stillettos (or something more or less similar).....the world doesn't end with one guy.
Just get the courage to smile. The most ravishing one. *wink wink*. And see how the others come to you.
*crossing my fingers. otherwise, we can tell Sadie she's wrong*